You Don’t Have a Willpower Problem. You Have a Capacity Problem.

 

Break the patterns that drain you.

Build the capacity to lead your life — without blowing it up.

 

Patterns of Power is a 10-week intensive for high-performing men who are burned out, stuck in destructive habits, and ready to master self-leadership — not just at work, but in every part of life.

 

Craig’s work has been featured on Lifetime, Katie Couric, A&E, Good Day Sacramento & more.

The Hidden Cost of Being the Hero

You’ve built success and earned respect — but here’s what they don’t see:

  • The habits that numb, distract, and derail your momentum
  • The fear of being exposed as an imposter, no matter how much you’ve achieved
  • The growing resentment for a life that feels like a performance
  • The capacity crash that’s been coming for years

This isn’t weakness. It’s what happens when you don’t have the tools to lead yourself. You fall back into old patterns — the ones that helped you cope, escape, or survive.

Patterns of Power exists to break that cycle — and help you lead with real strength, not just hold it together.

Who Is This For?

High-performing men who:

  • Have built success on grit and performance but know it’s not sustainable

  • You’re powerful in business, and feel powerless at home

  • Keep reaching for the next win yet still feel empty inside

  • You use high‑risk habits (porn, booze, work, screens) to escape — but it never lasts.

  • Carry the weight for everyone else while neglecting themselves

  • Know they’re capable of greatness in every area of life, not just one

  • Realize it’s time to stop surviving and start leading themselves first

  • Know the cost of staying the same is too high

What's Included?

  • Private 1:1 onboarding call to establish your baseline

  • 10 weekly live sessions with Craig & Brent (90 minutes each)

  • Tools grounded in habit neuroscience, IFS parts work, and the SOS Map

  • Personalized power protocols designed for your specific habits, blind spots, and leadership style

  • Accountability partner and private messaging channel for support

  • A trusted, confidential community of leaders doing the same work

  • A private integration call to lock in your new operating system

  • Your Personal Operating Manual — built across 10 weeks, designed for you

Meet Your Program Leaders

Led by a nationally recognized high-performance coach and a former $100M company president turned executive leadership coach. Together, they bring decades of real-world leadership, coaching mastery, and lived transformation into one powerful program.

 Craig Perra

Craig Perra is a high-performance coach who specializes in helping high-achieving men break destructive habits and build unshakable self-leadership — so they can lead with power, presence, and control.

His work has been featured on A&E, Lifetime TV, The Steve Harvey Show, the Katie Couric Show, Good Day Sacramento, and ABC 10, and he’s coached thousands of men around the world — from executives and founders to athletes and high performers navigating private battles.

A former attorney and executive, Craig knows the pressure to perform while secretly unraveling. His personal breakdown led to the creation of The Mindful Habit® System — a practical, proven framework for rewiring behavior and reclaiming internal power through self-leadership.

Today, Craig’s mission is simple: help high performers stop the patterns that quietly run their lives — and lead themselves forward with clarity, purpose, and real strength.

Brent Perkins

Brent Perkins is an executive leadership coach and former president of a $100M company. After decades at the top of corporate life, he chose to step away — not to retire, but to rebuild from the inside out.

Today, Brent helps high performers dismantle the patterns that drive burnout, disconnection, and emotional exhaustion — and guides them to lead with clarity, capacity, and grounded confidence.

He’s the founder of 3xBold and creator of the SOS Map™, a leadership framework that helps men identify their stuck points and reconnect to who they truly are beneath the performance. He’s also the author of Paper Cuts, a powerful exploration of what happens when success leaves you feeling hollow.

Brent’s mission is to help ambitious men shed the armor of performance and build a version of leadership that’s honest, sustainable, and whole.

From Survival → Sovereignty

Stop fighting parts of yourself.

Start leading them.

 

Replace crisis-driven performance with calm, focused leadership.

Build capacity to excel — without burning out.

Reclaim joy, intimacy, and presence at work and at home.

Because recovery is just the beginning. True transformation comes when you integrate your shadows, retrain your habits, and lead your whole system forward.

Trusted by Leaders in These — and Other High-Performance Industries

The Investment

$5,000 USD

You’ve invested in survival — now invest in sovereignty.  This isn’t just a course. It’s a capacity upgrade that pays for itself — in your leadership, your relationships, and your peace of mind.

  • 10 weeks of live, co-facilitated sessions with Craig & Brent

  • Private onboarding + integration calls to personalize your journey

  • Customized protocols & accountability partner to help keep you on track

  • Lifetime access to recordings + your Personal Operating Manual so you never lose the work you build

  • A Confidential Community of high-performing men walking the same path

  • Practical Tools you’ll use for the rest of your life —your work doesn’t end — it evolves

 

Apply Now - Only 10 Seats Available

Optional Upgrade - 3 Power Sessions

$1,500

Three private 1:1 sessions with either facilitator

  • 3 private 1:1 Mastery Sessions with either Craig or Brent
  • Exclusive access — only 3 spots per facilitator, ensuring high-touch support

Professional Development Reimbursement:

This program may qualify as a reimbursable leadership or executive training expense. If you're employed in a leadership role, check with your company — we’re happy to provide a certificate or help with justification language.

The most powerful investment you’ll ever make is in yourself.


Patterns of Power isn’t just about recovery — it’s about building the capacity to lead at work, at home, and in life. 10 weeks  -  10 leaders. One recalibration that changes everything. 

 

Because the stakes are too high to stay stuck. 

 

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